He likes me…he likes me not

At this very moment I am asking myself if you "don't know what" likes me or not ???

It takes TWO people to have a relationship. You cannot love for Two, You cannot heal for TWO and you surely cannot LIVE for TWO!!Love is a two way street and two people must WANT to be together to make it work over time.

As relationships grow, they change and metamorphosise, as with all things in this world. And as we ourselves change and experience change around us, we need to share our experiences and feelings with those close to us, or we grow apart because we know not what is happening with each other, inside our hearts and heads. At the start of a relationship we think that we know everything that is happening in the other person – the whole ‘soulmate’ is strongly felt – but that is something that needs to be worked on through time, and closely nurtured. It is easy to assume we know what our partners are thinking – but we are frequently wrong, and clarifying what they are thinking and saying is essential. It is commonly said that communication is the key to a good relationship and it remains true. But communication isn’t just talking, it’s also about providing an environment in which the other person is comfortable to say anything that is on their mind, even things that they think might be upsetting to us. And this is often a challenge. I think it’s also important to realise that a partner or soulmate cannot be everything and everyone to us – we need interaction with others, as it is unreasonable to expect just one person can provide everything we need in our lives. Working on these things can be difficult, but will bring endless warmth and love to a relationship.

PrettySweetBoy