Are You a Control Freak?
DMG & I have to deal with a control freaks on a daily basis. His father and my father-in-law.
Control freaks are the most irritating form of life I have come across. If you have a family member who is like this or are unfortunate enough to have married one it is very difficult to turn your back on them which is what they deserve. They have no conscience since everything they do is a consequence of your actions. Every simple request is a battle of wills. They feed of negative energy and are the eternal victims. Walk away from them permanently if possible.
I think it sounds terrible to say that one should just walk away from a "control freak" - surely, one has to keep some distance, but that's a subtle thing, and depends also on how close you want to be that person yourself. Control freaks are people, too, with their good and bad sides. And they need lots of love, especially because they are having such a hard time.
Control freaks can be very kind people in a way, too. A good cause can go wrong when the nurturing or instruction becomes too intrusive. Sometimes it's pleasant to be cared after, and then it's not.
I am writing this as I've read a great deal about control freaks as people or how they behave in personal relationships so if someone else reads this who has a 'control freak' father or father in-law they know they're not the only ones! Thanks for reading!
PrettySweetBoy
Control freaks are the most irritating form of life I have come across. If you have a family member who is like this or are unfortunate enough to have married one it is very difficult to turn your back on them which is what they deserve. They have no conscience since everything they do is a consequence of your actions. Every simple request is a battle of wills. They feed of negative energy and are the eternal victims. Walk away from them permanently if possible.
I think it sounds terrible to say that one should just walk away from a "control freak" - surely, one has to keep some distance, but that's a subtle thing, and depends also on how close you want to be that person yourself. Control freaks are people, too, with their good and bad sides. And they need lots of love, especially because they are having such a hard time.
Control freaks can be very kind people in a way, too. A good cause can go wrong when the nurturing or instruction becomes too intrusive. Sometimes it's pleasant to be cared after, and then it's not.
I am writing this as I've read a great deal about control freaks as people or how they behave in personal relationships so if someone else reads this who has a 'control freak' father or father in-law they know they're not the only ones! Thanks for reading!
PrettySweetBoy
posted by PrettySweetBoy @ 7:27 AM
2 Comments:
eehh never heard bout his father always the mother jek all this while. hiks all i can say is sabar jek laa think of how much time is left for him in this world dah tak lama pun (aiyooo matilaahh ustazah katanya ahahha)
BOO...DMG mother passed away in April, so now his Dad staying together with us uooollsss ... aduhhh poning kepalo den !!!
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